Up in the air...


Yesterday, I went to see "Up in the air" with my sweetie at Central World. The first choice I picked for this week and I gotta say it's a good start. We loved the movie as much as we love dessert after lunch. It's warmed, touching and lovely. I think nobody can't take the place of Mr.Clooney in this movie. His charming and acting, and of course the rest of magnificent crews fulfill the story perfectly and enjoyable to watch.

Relationship and communication are always a popular issue. Nowadays technology is taking over the world in the way that make us more lazy and also lack of our manner and skill of communication. Of course it's easier to send text and more convenience to make video conference instead of wasting time in the traffic or cross the world just only for a meeting. But what we've lost between the line is 'the feeling', 'emotion' and 'connection'. We deny to confront the other human being just because we can't handle their emotion so we send text to break-up, apologizing e-mail, terminated video cam and so on. This is the world of technology which make us less human. For example...at the dining table; we may chat on BB, check our mails, check the update on Facebook or Twitter but what we forget is we are sitting there with friends who would love to communicate with you, share you their story, enjoy dinner with you instead of watching you enjoying your BB chatting or get irritating and frustrating when you just can't stop checking and updating on your social networking site. Worst of all, some people can be on the phone for hours, chatting on M, hook on their social networking profile until it effect their ability to work. While some people texting and taking on the phone when they drive which cause an accident and put some other driver and their passenger in danger. There is always 2 side of a coin but we've just never seen the other side just because the side you're seeing is pretty already.

I used to be in the relationship when there was the point that our communication was gone. So what was left? We drifted apart, day by day. Until he finally realized and accepted, I was already gone. Communication is the key of everything; healthy relationship, strong family, successful business. Definitely you can run, you can lie and you can hide but nobody can keep running forever. Truth is hurt and happiness is good, that's all we've been teaching. But for once that you sleep at night and feel like all the anxiety and that haunted thought are out of your chest. For once that you can sleep peacefully at night. "Talk"...to your parent, your friends, your partner or even to yourself (of course you might look as if you are crazy, so just don't do it in public! ~_- ). Talk it out and you will see it's not that difficult to handle the other and also will improve your communication skill. But impressive inspired talker and talkative is the different deal...

It's time for me to catch up another movies..."The Book of Eli" and maybe "The Hurt Locker". It's 60baht Wednesday so it's gonna be movie marathon day, which I love it!! See you again next time...

Anita

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Nabil said…
let me say "BRAVO" Anita...I remember a saying, which sometimes I like "far from your eyes, far from your heart"....